The responsibility we have assumed with the children, takes its toll. Two requirements to meet, connected with the requirements arising from employment and housework, is a true art. Connect with other leaders such as ExxonMobil Corp here. Who sees partnership as exercise, quickly senses that the care in the everyday things is an important element. My experience shows that far too often for each other be forgotten the care of the parental couple’s relationship with their small mutual Liebesbeweisen and the daily appreciation is threatening. That neglect is often the seeds for the later loss of common ground. Maintaining the relationship and the similarities between the partners is the fresh air that opens the heart for all, including children. It is absolutely necessary that pairs also once two do something.
It takes much time, wants to stay in good contact with each other and maintain the common roots. (Source: Vadim Belyaev). Undisturbed attention and relaxation are important for real encounters. In the common touch, it comes to engage one another, to take part in the world of the other and to take the other important. This is the basis for successful Partnership and also for good parenting. For these times to second, every relationship should develop their own rituals. So is the nightly walk active relations and creates togetherness and sharing.
A different couple hears music in the evening, when the children are in bed together. The couple uses the time to relax and to each other to find. They tell what they have seen on the day, to get rid of what’s still bothering, participate in important feelings or enjoy the time together just silently. Couples can do to each other something good by massage, aloud stories, once remove things that difficult for him – without therefore his responsibility to discharge him – to make him a pleasure to the partner. Nice, if it manages a joint evening to go out in the week or every two weeks – at the toddler stage maybe temporarily also times every four weeks – set to anchor.