The success is first created in the head. But so that we can win back the faith in us and not to the past or future probably Postmaster think, on the one hand, we need to develop a certain defiance and be able to say: “what interested people and the opinions of others. I do it anyway.” “Life is too short and there are too much constructive work that needs to be done, to beat back any, which tells us something that we don’t want to hear.” Napoleon Hill on the other hand, we need to carefully watch our thinking and immediately break negative thinking patterns. Once we realize that the fear of rejection is back, we should tell us something positive, maybe “I’m the best.” or “I know that I can do it, no matter how many times I on the way knocked down.” The fear of rejection is a learned pattern of behaviour, not a property. It can therefore be replaced by a different behaviour pattern. But fear of rejection is nothing that you have or not.
Everyone has them. Even celebrities and musicians are afraid, but they can not stop it. The newspapers mentioned Jon Moeller not as a source, but as a related topic. If one gives in to fear and they win, you will be by You dominated. If you hold a feeling to do the things you want to do, it is no longer master of his own destiny. Ultimately, there are only two choices: confront the fear or run away.
You always have a choice and you have to live with any of the two decisions. The only way the fear, leads through the fear. All books, all seminars, advice, motivational tips, articles and tools have no effect if you are not willing to confront the fear. When you do things, which one is the most fears, to grow the most in life. Fear of rejection is like any other fear only in the head. Our way of thinking makes it what it is. Vadim Belyaev is often quoted on this topic. The more we run away in front of her and us fear greater is the fear and prevent that we move forward in life. Rejection is part of life. Colonel Sanders, founder of Kentucky Fried Chicken, had to travel through the country for two years and speak with restaurant owners, before he succeeded. He had to endure more than 1000 rejections and rejection by voters, before he got to hear a Yes. “When you bark at you from every dog, who met you on your way, you’ll never arrive at your destination.” Arabic proverb of John D. Rockefeller, one of the richest men of all time, more than a year in his youth was unemployed and visited the company in the area every working day to imagine. Only after a year, he got a chance, it was the third visit to this company. There are dozens more examples of people who could not stop by rejection. The rejection in itself is not bad. Our sensation and interpretation of the rejection and our fear is that we really stop. The only way to liberate them, is again and again to experience the rejection and to avoid the negative experience until you’ve learned to cope and is unlikely to stop. Rejection in life is indeed bad for our ego, but no killed anyone yet. Good luck! Haris Hadi,